Instructions:

Signon to meetup.

On every web page in meetup on top is the Profile
link clink on that.

On the next page loaded click on the Photos tab.

If you already have photos you should see Manage all photos click on that.
Not sure what it would say if you didn't have any photos but I imagine it would be the same , or Add new photo.

On the next loaded page a list of your photos should appear (if you previously unloaded)
on any one of the photos choose the one you want as your profile pic Make this your main photo

If you don't have any photos or don't like the ones listed , scroll down to the
Upload a new photo text box use the browse button to look for a photo on your pc to use

Hopefully the above is clear enough.
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